Own Your Life

Do you know what is stopping you from getting the life you really want? the answer is your perception of yourself. Your thoughts are holding you back, yes, your thoughts. You are the only one that has the right and the capability to change the thoughts that are in your mind. Other people may have put some of the ideas in there in trhe first place but it is you who has the absolute choice as to whether you keep those negative thoughts about yourself or bin them. When you put your focus on something that upsets or hurts you then you attract more of the same thing to you. On the other hand if you decide to put your focus on thoughts make you happy and elated then you will attract harmony into your life.
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The reason most people think that the law of attraction does not work for them is they want instant results and when it doesn’t happen instantly they become disgruntled and start the circle of negativity again. However if they just had a liittle more faith they would start to see the circumstances changing and remarkable things happening in their lives.
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The law of attraction is always working, 24 hours a day 7 days a week,etc. If you are negative in your approach to it then it will give you what you are concentrating on, more negativity. If you are positive in your approach then it will give you positive feed back.
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So learn to guard your thoughts and when you catch yourself feeling sad and depressed or worried, change the vibration and tell yourself you are happy and at ease with the situation, no matter how bad it is and see how quickly you really will start to feel your life changing for the better. The good news is that even if you don’t believe it, it will still work. Try it What have you got to lose?
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We all go through life carrying a certain amount of baggage with us that should be left in the past. The only problem is that most of us do not realise that we can choose to leave it there. People that we trust tell us that we are useless or stupid or that we are naughty or some other useless remark that they feel about us at the time. We store those thoughts up and as we continue to hear them we start believing them. The result is that we end up being what we are told we are.
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We all have two parts to our mind, the conscious mind, the part that analysis the things that we are told and the sub-conscious mind that just accepts something that we hold onto until it gradually seeps into sub-conscious and stays there. These thoughts then make us what we think we are.
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Each time you allow yourself to feel depressed and start worrying about your problems all that you are concentrating on is your problems. Guess what? That means that all you will get is more problems. I know it’s not easy sometimes to forget your problems but if you start being grateful for what you have and put your focus on what you do want in your life instead of focusing on what you do not want, you will start getting the sort of life you do want.
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The thoughts that you had yesterday are the thoughts that bought you to where you are today. When you understand this concept, you will understand that when you change your perception you shift your focus. Stop letting your life spiral out of control and start putting your life together again.
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Every time you get depressed you are giving away more of your life. Start telling yourself that you are special, you are successful, you are happy, and you are in control. Refuse to accept to acknowledge outside circumstances, they are just the residual thoughts of your past, your new thoughts and positivity is what you are now
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It’s a well-known fact that different people have different work habits. There are some that just go out and get what they want, nothing seems to stop them. Then there are those that start well but never complete a task and so give up. They start off full of enthusiasm but the moment something goes wrong they decide they are not clever enough or it’s not worth the bother. The latter are not aware that it is precisely the fact that they procrastinate that they never see anything through to completion, so they set themselves up for failure every time.
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The people that are go getters know that there is always a way and they refuse to give up until they find the solution to their problem. The procrastinators start and then hesitate and then just go with the majority and then give up. There are however several things that can be worked out that empowers someone to learn to take risks, not stupid risks but carefully thought out steps that will enable you to break through the barriers and end procrastination.
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We all make mistakes at some time or other but it’s what we learn from those mistakes that makes or breaks us. Some people hit a problem that has cropped up before and think to themselves, “I can’t do this” but it’s just your perception of your own abilities that needs changing. Once you have changed your perception you can find answers that you need without hitting your head against a brick wall.
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Some people get angry when they get problems and do not know how to handle it. By finding out what makes you angry you will be able to change the way that you deal with problems and this will help you move forward to a better life.
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Some people are naturally outgoing when it comes to meeting new people, but there are those who are shy and feel uncomfortable. Again you can easily learn the tools that will help you gain confidence and start meeting people and making friends. You can learn how to overcome shyness and find the confidence that will help you through.
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The thoughts that you are having every day may not be your own thoughts. they are more than likely thoughts that other people have put there for you. Your teacher, your family, your friends, your work colleagues. If you suffer from low esteem it is not because you nercessarily think that you are in some way inferior it is because someone has repeatedly given you this information and you have heard it so many times that it has now gone into your sub-conscious mind. Your conscious mind can and will argue but if you repeatedly listen to the same command then it eventually sends a message to your sub-conscious and you then start to believe what you are told. You are now filled with self-doubt and don’t know how to change that idea.
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When you are living fully through the Law of Attraction, you have to pay attention to how you feel. When you feel good, you are drawing to you things you have asked for. If you feel bad, you are holding yourself apart form the things you want to create in your life. This doesn’t mean that you will never feel bad…you will…every day. But when you feel negative emotion you can turn it back around to a positive emotion. The key is becoming aware of resistance in your vibration. Try using these five steps to stay a match to what you are asking for through Law of Attraction:

1. Notice pain or stiffness in your body. When you notice it, turn the emotional corner and breathe into the pain or stiffness. See yourself adding light and love and gratitude into the stiff area. Imagine it releasing and relaxing. This really works if you stop and really do it, I promise.You will feel better.

2. Notice how you talk to yourself. As you move through the day, pay attention to the words you use to talk to yourself. Do you praise your actions and feelings, or do you “talk down” to yourself? Do you say “nice interaction…I have perfect timing” or do you more often say “hey dummy, that was a stupid thing to do.”? If you are not being kind to yourself, turn the emotional corner by affirming that you aren’t perfect, and that you are doing the best you can. Change words that criticize into words that uplift. Let your view of yourself match the view that your inner being has about you. Your inner being loves you and knows you are exactly where you need to be right now. You will feel better.

3. Notice how you talk directly to others. Your vibration is also affected by the way you interact with others directly. Are you kind and uplifting to the people you see everyday? It’s easier to be kind to friends and family as opposed to the annoying cashier at the market. But your vibration (and emotional state) depends on how you handle the annoying people too. Can you find something to like about them? Can you see yourself in them somehow. Turn the emotional corner by giving them credit for who they are, and by feeling grateful for the service they are providing to you. You will feel better.

4. Notice how you talk with others ABOUT others. It is easy and tempting for two people to put down a third person, especially if that person is not present to hear it. It can feel good to agree with a friend that another person is ugly, stupid, inappropriate, or incompetent. But if you say these things, the experience won’t raise your vibration much, and soon you will feel the lowering of your vibration too. Turn the emotional corner by refusing to criticize others, even when someone is egging you on. The best way to do this is to start saying nice things about the person instead of degrading things. Or just don’t say anything at all. You will feel better.

5. Notice when you are clumsy. This is a real step. A sign of your disconnection can come through stubbing a toe, dropping a glass, hitting your head while turning, or by spilling a cup of hot coffee. When these things happen, stop and turn the emotional corner by affirming that you have some negative emotion activated. Simply take a deep breath and feel gratitude for your inner guidance that let’s you know when you are disconnected. Say “thanks” and move ahead a little more slowly and thoughtfully. Maybe you can also stop and close your eyes and collect yourself as well. Forgive yourself for attracting the spill, accident, or clumsiness, and move on ahead with confidence and humbleness. You will stop the chain of weirdness and you will surely feel better!

Try these ideas today. Thanks for reading. Let me know if you liked this post. Lisa

I have a wonderful piece of chiseled and painted stone (pictured here) hanging in my house. The text is a quote from Buddha Skakyamuni (b.624 BC): “We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.” For people who are just coming to know and understand the Law of Attraction, it seems like a New-Age revelation. These laws are as old as Source Energy, and though you may be discovering them recently, humans on planet Earth have been aware of these laws for a very, very, very long time. The idea that we create our reality through our thoughts has been documented and discussed as long as records have been kept, and the same message is interwoven throughout most every religious tradition, and even through scientific inquiry. Movies like “What The Bleep Do We Know?” report how science is just beginning to prove that our thoughts have a concrete and real affect on physical matter. Science is showing that everything is energy, and at certain levels, everything is interconnected. When you change one aspect of anything, and hence its vibration, the change ripples out and affects everything within its frequency. The Universe is expanding and expanding and expanding!

When I was in middle school, I picked up a book called “The Nature of Personal Reality” by Jane Roberts and Robert Butts. I read it cover to cover and then started on the next “Seth” book in the series. By the time I was done, creating your own reality made perfect sense to me. It’s not about deciding to create your own reality through your thoughts…but the realizing fact that you DO create reality through your thoughts, even if you don’t know you are. If you are thinking, you are creating, period. It makes sense, then, to pay attention to the way you are creating. The evidence you have is clear and concrete: the life you are living right now arose from your thoughts in the past. Do you like your life, right now? If you do, stay focused in the manner you have been focusing. Enjoy the ride. If you don’t like what you have manifested, then begin noticing the ways you talk to yourself and others. What kind of stories do you tell in your head to yourself? Are you kind and optimistic when giving yourself advice? Are you kind to others? It is human to beat yourself up every now and again…but there is no need to make it your full-time job! If you can notice when your thoughts feel good and reflect your desires for a better life, and when they contradict your intentions for a better life, you can begin to give more energy and attention to the thoughts that will create the life you want. There is no emergency. You can perfect this little by little for eternity. Just begin by noticing and redirecting. Over time, you will see the evidence of your new and more consistent (and joyful) thinking. Your life will thrill you, and you will be exactly where you need to be…right here…right now, with no worry for anything else. Enjoy this most amazing day! CHRIS-GP

This question can to us recently through our “Ask Gratitude Planet” page. Perhaps you also have comments and suggestions for this member of the GP Community and her daughter:

Message/Question:
“Hi. My daughter is a good volleyball player and there are a couple of
skills she appears to be struggling with that she has the ability to
do. If she master these it will take her to a whole new level of
confidence and skill. she wants them so badly however seems like she
just needs a little extra assistance. I want to be able to help her
get there through my positive energy, or prayer…. can you give me
any assistance on how I can help her make that breakthrough. It’s
critical for her confidence and continuuing to grow positively in this
sport. I don’t want her teammates to lose faith in her.” -Tina

From Gratitude Planet:

Tina,

Thanks so much for your question. One way you can help her is to encourage her to talk about the developing skills in a way that feels better to her. For example, if she says “I’m not a good setter” and you know she is telling herself this either out loud or to herself, you can redirect her and say “you are getting better every moment at setting.” Once she gives herself the benefit of the doubt in her vibration, then you can start reaching farther with saying statements such as “My setting skills are becoming amazing. Everyone can tell I am getting really good at it.” There are many statements that she can say and then believe fully, and you will know best which ones to support her through and guide her to. She can also “practice” in her imagination. Have her sit quietly and “see herself” in her mind doing the skills with amazing grace and precision. Law of Attraction will not know that she is not really doing it, and will help her on the real court. Be sure she doesn’t visualize failures, but rather imagines herself being amazing. She will draw on these attraction momentum builders when she goes out there for real. You supporting her is huge, because many of us quit when the world tells us we are kidding ourselves. But we are not kidding ourselves, and having someone you love and trust help you practice these tools for expansion is very powerful. Let me know if this approach works in your case. Thanks for the question. Be Well, CHRIS-GP

Law of Attraction Tips for Wellness and Prosperity

Today I am going to take the first agreement from the book “The Four Agreements” by Don Miguel Ruiz and relate it to my understanding of the Law of Attraction. If you haven’t read Part 1 of this series, you can click HERE to see it before you read this post. In his book, the author discusses how we inherit certain beliefs as we grow from infancy into adulthood. The beliefs we hold come to form the basis for what we call “truth” in the world, and our behavior is vastly shaped by those beliefs. We make an agreement with ourselves to call these beliefs “reality” and to not question them in our own minds. But if you adopt new agreements, replacing the old ones, and decide to guide your life by them, your can transform your life in a powerful way. Remember that the four NEW agreements are:

1.     Be impeccable with your word.

2.     Don’t take anything personally.

3.     Don’t make assumptions.

4.     Always do your best.

The first agreement, “Be impeccable with your word” is not easy to understand at first.

impeccable |imˈpekəbəl|
adjective
(of behavior, performance, or appearance) in accordance with the highest standards of propriety; faultless : a man of impeccable character.
• rare Theology not liable to sin.

Does it mean that you have to only use certain words, or that you have to monitor your speech in ways that feel unnatural? Not at all. If you think about the Law of Attraction, and if you remember that LoA responds to your vibration, the “word” takes on a more profound meaning. The words you think to yourself, and that you speak to others, create a vibrational average that we call your point of attraction. When your thoughts and words are in alignment with your Source Energy, then you feel a strong connection and flow which is translated into an experience of feeling good. Another way to say this is: if you use words that align with Source, you feel good. In fact, if you feel emotions that feel less-than-good, you can be sure that you have been practicing thoughts that are not aligning with your Source.

So what does Source Energy think about you and anyone in this reality? That is the million-dollar question, because it is the key to feeling good, being in the flow of life, attracting the life you want, and using the magic of Law of Attraction to manifest everything you have been wanting. Source Energy loves you. It knows that you are good, and it knows that you are worthy. It sees the best in others, it sees the best in you, and it knows that you are perfect in your eternal imperfection. It rejoices every time you expand and become more than you were. It understands that the purpose of life is joy and expansion. It uplifts, loves, expands, and celebrates every moment. Get in the flow of Source, and you feel good. Feel good more of the time, and you attract more things that help you feel good. It is a cycle of thinking and feeling that has no upper limit…but you have to think like your Source…and hence you must agree to “Be impeccable with your word.”

Being impeccable with my word means, to me, doing my best to love myself and everyone I come into contact with. It means abandoning “put down” thinking that normally accompanies gossip. It means reaching for a better-feeling thought more of the time. It means leaving behind preconceptions of myself and others in exchange for vibrational offerings that align more and more with what my Source thinks. It implies that I look for the best in every situation. If you are impeccable with your word, you will not suddenly be perfect. But you will make a new agreement with yourself that will help you feel better and better. You have no eternal cosmic commitment to be disconnected, feeling bad, or a negative realist. You can choose to think the way that feels best, and the door through which you must walk is via your personal word.

I hope this helps you decipher this first agreement a little. I am grateful for this information, and also for the opportunity to bring it to you through my perspective. Happy New Year, be well, and enjoy this most amazing day!  Chris-GP

There have been time in my life where I didn’t feel as good as I could have. You must certainly feel the same way. But when these times are upon you, and when you feel that there is no bliss on your emotional radar, don’t worry. There is no risk to you here on planet Earth in that you will always experience contrast and connection. You will always have times when you feel good and times when you feel bad. All is well. What I want to remind you of today is how good, good feels. Good feels really good, and the most important thing to remember is that no mater how how feel, you can always feel better by reaching for the best thought you have access to. Here’s one way that I practice this:

If I am going through my day and then I suddenly realize that I am disconnecting from Source Energy (I can tell because I am irritated or basically pissed off about something), my first step is simply to acknowledge what is happening. I don’t try to fix it, nor do I beat myself up for the way I feel. Instead, I ride out the feeling and I do my best to truly feel it while it is happening. Once I notice it and ride it for a little while, feeling it and simply observing, I wait for it to loose some of it’s energy. That’s right…as long as I don’t feed it with thoughts that feel worse, it is going to run its course and dissipate a little.

Once my pissy attitude has let down a little, then I have the opportunity to clean it up. What I do is look for any thought that feels better than the one I was just thinking. If I was really upset, this first thought will not sound great to an outside observer. It might be a thought of hatred, anger, revenge, or whatever feels better than what I was feeling in the first place. But I continue to reach and feel, and observe and reflect. In little time, I start feeling optimistic again, and then I am off to the races!

Once I get hold of an optimistic thought, then I have access to tons of thoughts that actually feel good. I can then move into gratitude, expectation, belief, happiness, passion, love, appreciation, and even bliss. And once my day moves into a thought-feeling of “Optimism” or higher, then everything seems to start falling together in a positive way. I develop perfect timing, and I become really productive in my job or tasks for the day. Law of Attraction works all day, every day, no matter how you feel. It simply lines you up to experience life according to how you feel on average. So if you think and feel, and think and feel, and reach for thoughts that are optimistic, Law of Attraction will match the vibration and expand your experience to the level of optimistic. Life simply works out, and you become one of the “lucky” people that seem to be in the right places at the right times.

So if you feel less than optimistic, no worries. Feel your feelings, let them be what they are, don’t pile on and make it worse or beat yourself up…and then reach for the relief of a better-feeling thought. It feels bad to feel bad, and it feels oh so geed to feel good. You have the choice to experience your life the way you want it to be. So today, climb your way up to feeling good, because good feels…well…Good!

Happy New Year, and please…Be.Love today! Hannya-GP